Thursday, 7 January 2016

BE THE CHANGE


Why do you think there are influx into countries like UK, America, Canada, Germany and some other developed countries? Your guess is as right as mine, people flocking into these countries because it’s a  conducive place to live where their leaders are working and the citizens are also supporting to see that their nation become an admirable place to live .
                                           
I agree with you that all this places are very good and develop and clean countries but don’t forget that the entire citizens are all responsible for their current enviable state of their country.
They see the development of their nation as a collective work, people in those nations don’t think of what their government will give them but they are also thinking of what they can do to bring development to their countries.
It is a developed people that will result into a developed nation. We cannot be living a nonchalant attitude towards our community, littering and abandoning our duties to our leaders, our leaders cannot do it alone, don’t forget that it is from the people the leaders are selected, it is only a responsible people that will produce a responsible leader.
We can be a great people of a great nation by taking responsibility for our current circumstance. That is getting to know what to do, and going ahead to do it, it is time to take responsibility and make the most of all the opportunities that comes our way.
I believe it is high time you come out of our deplorable state, and positively changed our identity by first improving our lot as individual.
Your country can be developed like the developed country if you start taking responsibility and stop leaving things alone for the government. Let be the change will want.
                                                
BE THE CHANGE

Wednesday, 6 January 2016

CHILD MARRIAGE (THE ACT OF THE IGNORANCE)

   CHILD MARRIAGE (THE ACT OF THE IGNORANCE)
Child marriage occurs in various time and places where by children are given in matrimony before marriageable age, often puberty.it is frequently associated with arranged marriage in some cases only one partner is a child usually the female due to importance placed upon female virginity.
UNICEF calls it as a formal  marriage before 18years .UNITED NATION women calls it as a forced marriage before 18 years of age because they believe children under 18 years are incapable of giving their consent

FACT ABOUT CHILD MARRIAGE                                        
There are lots of scaring fact about child marriage that happens
1.According to the international center for research on women (ICRM) 100 million of girls will be married before the age of 18 in the coming decade. most will be in the sub-saharan  Africa and Asia sub continental (Nepal,India,Pakistan).
2.Globally according to UNICEF 36% of women aged 20-24 where married or in a union forced or consensual before they’d reach 18
3.An estimated 14 million girls between the  age of 15 and 19 give birth each year, they twice as like to die during pregnancy or child birth than women in their 20s
4.Girls who marry between the age of 10 and 14 are five times as likely to die during pregnancy or child birth as women in the early 20s
CAUSES OF CHILD MARRIAGE
Child marriage has many causes: cultural, social economic and religious. The mixture of there causes result  
1.Poverty:poor families sell  their children into marriage either to settle debt or to make some money and child marriage foster s poverty however girls who marry young will not be properly educated or take part in the workforce.
2.Gender discrimination: child marriage is a product of culture that devalue women and girls discrimination against them
3.Trafficking:poor families are tempted to sell their girls not just into marriage but into prostitution as the transaction enables large sum of money to change hands (in tribal system a man pays a bride price to the girls family in other to marry her and have the right to do anything to her)
4.Inadequate laws: many countries such as Pakistan have laws against child marriage ,communities too impose their own form of law including permitting children marriage
5.Protecting girls sexually in certain culture marring girls young ensures that the family honor will be ‘’protected’’ but ensure that the girl marries as a VIRGIN

PROBLEM OF CHILD MARRIAGE
There are lots of problem that will arise when a girl is married at a young inmature age such as poor health, early death and lack of educational opportunities lead the list of problems attributed to child marriage.
1.Child brides have a double pregnancy death rate of women in their 20s
2.Babies of child marriage are sicker and weaker and many did not survive childhood
3.child bride have a higher risk of being infected with sexually transmitted disease
4.young girls are at high risk of chronic anemia obesity
5.sexually transmitted disease because child bride have poor access to contraception
Lack of girls education opportunities lifetime of poverty (statistically, child bride have a higher risk of becoming a victim of domestic violence sexually abuse and murder)

REGIONS OF CHILD MARRIAGE
Despite many countries enacting marriageable age laws to limit marriage to a minimum age of 16-18.poverty,religion,traditional conflict make the rate of child marriage in sub-saharan Africa and similar to south Asia and almost around the world
In most African countries practice the act for example:
Mali have 72% of girls marring before the age of 18
Kenya have 21%,Niger&Chad have above 70% and in Ethiopia & Nigeria girls of 15 are put in marriage even as young as 7 are married in Niger and many more country
Asian countries have high rate of child marriage, this happen in most Asian country such as India, Pakistan and many more
47% of India women were married before the age of 18,40% child marriage happens in India and rural area of Pakistan
Child marriage marriage happens every where in the world south America, Asia, Europe, Africa and lots
The main cause of child marriage is mainly illiteracy many family of those that engage in childe marriage are local and uneducated people, and poor people find them self doing it because they have no option than to give there girls in marriage because  of the money involve and ignorance make some family sell there child into slavery and prostitution unaware.
The ways I think child marriage can be reduced or stop is: country should enact strict laws against it and they should set marriageable age to 18 and they should educating rural people about the danger involve in early marriage.
As the world population is increasing every day, I think is the high time to cope child marriage do you think enacting laws against it and setting the age to 18 will be able to cope it or what do you think can reduced or stop child marriage

Your views counts and it can save many girls life.

Tuesday, 24 March 2015

Reason Not To Ask Why Me


Are you in a situation or you lost someone and asking why me because you think you don’t deserve what happened to you? , Follow me and I will show you why that happens to you very soon

Friday, 20 February 2015

How To Motivate Others


Did you know there's two powers of personality you can develop that will increase your charisma and your ability to influence others?
The first of these powers is the power of purpose. Men and women with charisma have a clear vision of who they are, of where they're going and what they're trying to achieve.
Leaders have a vision of what they're trying to create and why they're doing what they're doing. They're focused on accomplishing something truly great. They're decisive about every aspect of their lives. They know exactly what they want and what they have to do to get it. They plan their work and work their plan.

Friday, 13 February 2015

St.Valentines, The Untold Real Story

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Flowers, candy, red hearts and romance. That's what Valentine's day is all about, right? Well, maybe not.
The origin of this holiday for the expression of love really isn't romantic at all -- at least not in the traditional sense. Father Frank O'Gara of Whitefriars Street Church in Dublin, Ireland, tells the real story of the man behind the holiday -- St. Valentine.

Monday, 9 February 2015

the acid test for love



I remember my first year in high school in the chemistry class there is something we use to call acid test of chemicals in the chemistry lab, we test the acidity of the chemicals or reagents to confirm maybe it contain acid or not.


There are many things in our life that need acid test for us to know and confirm maybe they are right for us to do or to be involved, there are many things that need acid test but I will be talking about the acid test for LOVE