NAGGING

Nagging is persistent fault finding, troublesome and continuous urging an individual to complete previously discussed request or act of advice and is the interaction in which one person repeatedly ignores it and both becomes increasingly angry. Nagging is an interaction to which each party contribute.

Nagging is more frequently among spouse over marital complaint, individual who nag are often “weak, insecure, and fearful. Their nagging disguise a base feeling of weakness and provides an illusion of power and superiority” nagging is common among alcoholic spouse.

Nagging can be found between both male and female spouse though usually over different subject, husband nag is usually involve finding “fault with their dinner, the household bills and with the children along carrying home the worries  of business  .

PARENTAL AND CHILD NAGGING

In terms of parental nagging of children a study at washington state university in 1959 stated that nagging is a symptom of the rejection of the child because of the way that child interfere  with the parents individual needs and aspiration.

There are two main reason first, we can’t just help it, our manner and cultural filters remind us that nagging our BOSS is NO-NO, but when it comes to our spouse, kids and friends we just can’t stop ourselves, after all it just a little help right.

Nagging can affect the emotion, especially the children having a nagging father, it  may lead to lost of trust in such father, am also a product nagging father of a nagging father, most time I just feel like he should not come home, because his always irritating when he start ,if you  come from a nagging parents you will agree with me.

You can share your views on nagging if you also have experience and how you do manage with it and lets see how it affect you, thanks.