the acid test for love

I remember my first year in high school in the chemistry class there is something we use to call acid test of chemicals in the chemistry lab, we test the acidity of the chemicals or reagents to confirm maybe it contain acid or not.

There are many things in our life that need acid test for us to know and confirm maybe they are right for us to do or to be involved, there are many things that need acid test but I will be talking about the acid test for LOVE

WHY DO WE NEED TO TEST LOVE

Let start by asking you why do you need to test love?, will here the word ‘’I love you’’ day in day out without knowing maybe is genuine or not or maybe it is lust. Many are out there lusting after each other mistaken it for love and the moment the other partner get what they want e.g money, influence, sex etc they leave, for you not to loose in two places and not to waste your time on a relationship that is going no where, then acid test for love is what you need and that is the reason why you need to acid test that love think about it...

HOW TO TEST LOVE

As we all know that to carried out acid test in the lab we need indicator eg melthly orange or phelonphytalin and the lithmus paper for us to perform the acid test on any chemicals in the lab.

For you to test love, you have to consider some things before you can conclude that may be the love is genuine or it is lust and here are the indicators you need to use to test love think about it...

1.       The point of attraction- are you attracted or your boyfriend or your girlfriend is attracted to you just because of the way you look, your body shape or figure, if you are in love or you are loved because of attraction be careful  it maybe lust! think about it...

2.       Maturity –Before you can be in a relationship the two of you must be mature enough to be in love because love is a matter of maturity

3.       Progress: life is about change nothing in this world remain in a position ask yourself since am in this relationship, do I have progress in my life, work and in the relationship itself, if not think about it.

4.       Freedom: since you are in that relationship are you free, is your partner always on your neck to know where, what  and when or is he over jealous that he or she can hardly  give you privacy, this is not love think about it!

5.       Consider the number:- are you his or her only partner or he or she have more than one partner, if yes that is not love it’s a lust the earlier you quit the better think about it...

6.       Sex – immorality –abortion :- if your partner is always demanding for immorality (sex) from you or asking you to abort, I’m sorry to tell you that such affair has no love and no man that have sex with you before getting marry to you will ever get married to you. Why will you have sex with someone that have not marry you or do not have the intention to do so or aborting for him, no man that love you will ever ask for sex before marring you not talk less of aborting for him. think about it...

If you go through this 6 steps on how to test your love you should have being able to tell maybe that love is true or it is lust and do something about it before it is too late.
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